Leave Wi-Fi and come back. This has nothing to do with my not responding. Not my fault, it's Nintendo's Wi-Fi. Also, wait until I actually host to talk to me rather than when my player comes in. That just makes this process longer.
Yes it will have DDance, but to get it Ice Punch I have to level it in Gen 4 and tutor it on there. Then I will have to shift it over to Gen 5 and EV it. So if you could be patient for probably 10-20 minutes that would be great.