All of my mons are non-redi (I won't trade or list Darkrai regardless of its distribution rights). In fact, the only reason I listed Zelen's Celebi in my thread is that I wasn't confident that I would learn 4th gen abuse, but then I did and had a Celebi, Mew, and Jirachi that I saved for that specific occasion.
Not sure what's going on...it may be on my end but I have no idea how to tell. I completed a 3 poke trade the other day with no issues but come to think of it, it is really snow right now where i am so maybe my signal is weak?