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for yellow and gold when I was young I had to use a strategy guide.
in pearl I took my time and built a team as I went usually it consisted of infernape, 3 other pokemon plus 2 HM slaves, usually bibarel. then when I bought platinum I had basically finished the game already so I rushed through...