Yay for twisted interpretations that make Christians look like Hypocrites!
Now, obviously considering I'm not a perfect Christian, I'm not going to be able to respond to these fragments as much as I would want to. However, I will try my best to try and answer your points.
If I need to use two words to describe Christianity it would be humility and love. Yes, obviously some things are not going to be explained by "love" (Old Testament Laws that akuchi keeps referring to).
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I'm sorry, feel free to offer an alternate interpretation if you wish.. admittedly it could be 'if they fuck before marriage then as long as he marries her it's all good'.. but it specifically states 'rape'.
These are rules. Your argument, at its core, can be applied to stealing, in which we can say
"It is okay to steal because if they get caught they can 'make it up' to the other party with money"
Obviously Bible does not condone stealing. By the same logic - why would it condone rape? Sure, it is a "loophole" to "get away" with rape - but the point is that it is a PUNISHMENT and your responsibility as a human being within the community to atone for your crimes. The 50 shekel payment is clearly a punishment - just because the "punishment" is there does not make the crime acceptable because they can just pay the punishment if they get caught (nowhere in the Bible does it ever mention that rape is "acceptable" - and if you're going to bring up the Book of Judges incident where they forcibly take wives - then you missed the POINT of the book of Judges where it is about how people "did as they saw fit" and how corrupted people were before God's guidance).
Just because people did crazy shit, within the Bible and out of it does not mean Christianity condones it.
The Old Testament Laws do not apply today, obviously. The Old Testament Laws are at least 3000 years old - and they apply to people of that bygone era. They do not apply to us - times have changed and society has made tremendous changes from the seemingly barbaric ways in the past.
Christianity makes this clear - we are not there to change society by making "laws" but to change society by the way we act and becoming the salt and light of the world, not by forcing shit down people's throats through laws. We are to submit to authority and society - as long as they do not go against the core beliefs of Christianity, of course. The Biblical Laws give people a way to live holy lives within that society. This is why the laws were still recorded - we are not supposed to "live by these laws" but only to figure out WHY the laws were there so we can apply them today (which would be the Talmud but Talmud is also like 1000 years old). Jesus did not say "do not pay taxes to caesar" but to just "go along with the system of Government". We are to change society with how we act - something that is more and more difficult to accomplish especially nowadays considering our society is getting more and more liberal (this is why many "fundamentalist" christians are conservative)
So basically akuchi your interpretation is then completely out of context and while I can understand your sentiments behind the interpretation, it does not reflect Christian values at all.
Excuse me, but if a religion says 'If you're not one of us, you'll burn in eternal hellfire.' Then it is effectively teaching Christians that they are, in a sense, 'better' than non-Christians. Christianity has noble ethics within its silly little frame, but non-arrogance is not included.
In a sense, yes. In a sense, no. Trying to claim Christianity is "arrogant" because "in SOME sense they are 'better'" is pretty ridiculous - considering Christianity does not teach that in any way of form.
The Bible makes it clear that the believers and non believers - aka "all man" are sinners. That means we are all on equal ground - we are not "better" because we believe in the Christian God. In fact, Christianity is defined by humility - which means that after we believe in Jesus we recognize that we are sinners (which obviously non believers will not realize).
Now if you are arguing that Christians are "better" because they recognize themselves as sinners... then "lol". This is not even "in a sense" - this is pretty much how it is. Of course Christians are also humans - some do not quite realize this and might act like they are superior because of their beliefs but do not attempt to lump these kinds of attitudes with Christianity because simply put, "it is not Christian to do so" - same thing with many many stupid shit "Christians" do nowadays (and of course, my arrogance in being able to call Christians 'Stupid' but I'm still working on that)
We are supposed to accept other people and love them not to tell them 'we are better' - that is pretty ridiculous and anti christian. The way you recognize the great leaders of Christianity is by their Humility not by what they have accomplished. Sadly, the christian church is something that is declining nowadays - and in my opinion is trying to turn the Religion into the Government which is pretty terrible but a rant for another time
Okay I'm out.