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I like the other names, I just don't think we need to gender this one. I think the art can fit either. Either way, female Mr. Mime is a thing so it isn't a big deal.
I'll be completely honest here, this mon is kinda cute, but there is absolutely nothing feminine I see here, so I really don't get some of the references.