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I know you have a larvitar already, but it's adamant so can I trade you a Careful or Sassy one? or BM items/Lucky Egg? I really need a Male Careful Phantump :)
PMing and quoting someones post basically gives off the same notification near the same place so I don't think you need to do that.
Welcome to Smogon btw.