you are obviously enamored with this pretty female, but as already suggested by the likes of mintyfresh
, a note is just wrong on so many levels. basically it would show you knew nothing about girls. (= not attractive + subject of joke with her girlfriends)
BUT MORNING STORM! I LIKE THIS GIRL! WHAT DO I DO THEN??
i know its a suprise, but girls wont always like guys for their pokemoning skills! therefore we're going to assume right now that she has no real perception of you besides the shy guy that stares at her in gym class. (stop doing this now by the way)
now you said you have no idea what she thinks of you
firstly, therein lies the root
of your problem! you dont have any semblance of a relationship, let alone the passionate, kinky, whips and leather, sex-filled we all hope for!
so hell, i know its a crazy suggestion, but you are actually going to have to get to know her!
ZOMG!! HOW DO I SOLVE THIS!?!
like all good things, you're going to have to start from the bottom and put in some work. you say she sits beside you in your study hall, so thats a great place to get started from.
just start the dialogue. it doesnt have to be an elalborate scheme. simply get to know her bit by bit. everything will go from there
- if you see her doing some work you did back then comment on it
- just ask her what work she's doing or up to that day
- if these arent workable options, you can maneuver the situation yourself; get some lollies or something, eat them there and offer her some.
- the important thing is, to build some up small connection, that you can work on and and develop more connections with. this can be a joke, interest or common experience.
if theres any chemistry also, that's where you'll know. you need to understand that if indeed you aren't overly smart/attrative/funny it will be a longer road then it otherwise would have been. NOW
im not stereotyping because this is a pokemon forum, but i am making a judgement from what you've said so far regarding 'love notes' and gym class staring.
to make this easier, let's liken it to catching a pokemon.
MEWTWO at cerulean caves if you will. it was a real bitch to catch, wasn't it?
we all know it isn't going to work by just throwing a pokeball at it. it will take many
pokeballs, great balls, ultra balls, sacrifice, and maybe even paralysis or putting it to sleep.
similarly, your suggestion of giving her a love note is a stupid as giving mewtwo one, asking him kindly to get in your pokeball. before you know it, he will have psychiced your level 23 beedrill ass to oblivion.
SO HERE'S A DIAGRAM SHOWING THE DEVELOPMENT OF RELATIONSHIP AKA CAPTURE OF THE GIRL:
(being that guy that stares at her likes in gym)
(being the nice guy who sits next to her in study)
(being the guy she's finds she has stuff in common with)
(being the guy who she talks to online occassioanlly, and is comfortable to see and hang out with outside of class and school)
(being the guy who she talks to on the phone and is her best friend that isnt a girl)
(being the guy who she has mixed feelings for, and wishes would ask her out)
ONLY THEN will you have her captured forever inside a small ball at your belt, releasing her to do your bidding!!
"OH NOES!! THIS IS ALL MUCH HARDER THEN IT SOUNDS!! I'm shy, and the conversation would be awkward!! i think im going to send the note instead.."
how is it you suppose you are going to have a relationship with her if you cant talk to her? toughen the fuck up, be a man, and stop disgracing the male population shelcario! grab life by the fucking balls and talk to her! fuck yea!
who knows, you may even find out you have nothing in common.
ONE LAST AMAZING POINT:
a girlfriend is above all, a person who you share a mutually benefitial relationship with. if you dont show her the personality, intelligence and pokemoning you have to offer she has no reason to see you as anyone else but the creepy gym kid. start talking to her, and start getting to know her.
that, and keep us informed.
and if we ever here about love notes again, we will all go jigglypuff on you and slap you silly.