As others have stated, AIM and the like sound like an excellent first step to me for a guy like you, Shelcario. You get to know the girl in a low pressure situation, and then if you enjoy talking to her and are comfortable enough you can get closer to having free and open conversations with her in person.
Now I'm warning you, if she catches on and starts ignoring you, she's not worth your time if you want a long term relationship. If she's the type that has a lot of guy friends, I'd also reconsider, as they're much, much harder to get close as "that special guy."
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