Moony took four days to answer my initial VM, then suggested that we play that same day (Monday). I said "maybe," because it was short notice, then showed up on Smogtours at the suggested time. After waiting 90 minutes, I left, and asked Moony to name another time. Moony said 1 pm EDT any day, or any time Saturday, and I said that 1 pm Saturday (two hours ago) should work. Moony never responded, which I took as implicit agreement to play at that time.
Even if you disagree with me about that last part, I think it's clear which of us has put more effort into scheduling. I'm still on Smogtours and able to play, but I'm calling activity if we don't get this done.
Edit: Moony gave me the win.