I was saying that all the pokemon that get it seem to be those that can use the Aura ability (like how you explained in the bit comparing it to the force from Star Wars), and then pointed out that common thread that all the pokemon that get it can do.
I know, but going by just the examples you provided the following Pokemon can get it:
Detect: Hitmoncha, Zapdos, Yanma family, Hitmontop, Treecko family, Sableye, Meditite family, Zangoose, Absol, Azelf, Patrat family, Pidove family, Hawlucha, Cubone, Eevee, Makuhita, Starly, Oshawott, Timburr, Scraggy, Zorua.
Serene Grace: Chansey family, Dunsparce, Jirachi, Shaymin, Deerling family, Meloetta.
Super Luck: Murkrow family, Absol, Pidove family.
Telepathy: Wobbuffet family (lol), Ralts family, Meditite family, Munna family, Elgyem family, Noibat family.
Now I'm not saying you're wrong, but there has to be something additional for a Pokemon to get Aura Sphere that you can't define within the game's mechanics. Yes Aura possibly helps these Pokemon use these moves and Abilites, but at the same time it could just mean Pokemon with these moves and Abilities just have the additional senses needed to use these moves. It's why I went with Pokemon who look like they can be "spiritual" as its shown in the games and movies that Pokemon with Aura Storm has some additional mysticism and/or wisdom about them that has taught them to bend the aura energy.
Just as I compared Aura to The Force from Star Wars when commenting on Karxrida pointing out if all that was needed was the ability to concentrate chi than all Pokemon who got Focus Blast would get it, I can relate this discussion to the elemental Bending that is done in Avatar: The Last Airbender. Just as you tried breaking down things into components to reason why these Pokemon got Aura Sphere it can be compared to how in Avatar bending was broken down into 4 types. There's the Earth, Water, Fire, and Air (or was) kingdoms and a bender that came from those kingdoms was a bender of that element. BUT just because you were from those kingdoms does not mean you are a bender, once again some people just had that special ability. They broke it down to their components but even then obviously not everyone gets the gift.
Now if I were to be a bit more generous with my list this would be the Pokemon I would say seem would have the capability of learning Aura Sphere: Ninetales, Alakazam, Slowpoke family, Gengar, Legendary Beasts, Lugia, Ho-Oh, Gardevoir, Medicham, Absol, Eon Duo, Infernape, Spiritomb, Lake Guardians, Lunar Duo, Shaymin, Arceus, Musharna, Darmanitan, Sigilyth, Gothitelle, Reuniclus, Tao Trio, Keldeo, Meloetta, Florges, Aegislash, Malamar, Sylveon, Mortality Duo, Zygarde, Diancie, and Hoopa. Of course if they want to keep the move exclusive to a special few even this list is too big which is why I cut it down as I did in my original post.