Sorry to hear about your friend, I hope they are in a better place now. If you ever need to talk or anything, feel free to pm. Stay strong. Prayers for both you and your friend. May her soul rest in peace.
i dont know if you remember who i am at all, but we used to hang out in the same rooms together. i'm here for you if you need anything or just want to talk. i can't fathom how you're feeling right now but don't hesitate to reach out. my discord is Kris#0366 - she will be missed
I think Psyshock > Psychic on Starmie could help deal with special Walls when you have no safe switch in. It gets stab as well at the cost of 10 bp you can pierce through special Defensive walls and deal nice damage to pokemon who have a ton of special defense but a shitty base defense stat.