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I'm sorry to hear that but i've always thought the people saying you need to be like pursuing some higher goal at every point of your lives are stuck up losers who have miserable lives so...
Haha! Truly wholesome touching scenario where old friends gather on someone's smogon wall to call each other noobs and pathetic woo!! So proud of you two as always!!