I understand, but yeah, mommy perspective coming in: people at a younger age can't deal with certain logical processes until they grow into the ability. Things that seem obvious and easy to you, may be incredibly mysterious and difficult and possibly even unobservable to someone else. This can vary even in the same age group. If you look back, the you of two years ago doesn't even think like the you of right now. So that's why I try not to be judgmental. Where I am imperfect, someone else is better. Where I'm better, someone else needs help or time to get better. That's just how things are.