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It started when I got beat yet again by that bullshit fucking comeback mechanic. The bitter taste it leaves in your mouth when your team is powerless to stop it has put me off of playing Gen 8 many times. I could have dropped the meta whenever I wanted to pursue the glory of making 6v6 teams...