I don't really like to do this but it can't be helped.
We scheduled for today at 9PM GMT+1 ; I have been online on the main server under Teclis from 8:30PM to now (11:20PM) and my opponent has not shown up, leaving a profil post asking if I was there - which was the case. Having seen this I've looked for him both on the main server and smogtours, and he is displayed as offline (since recently as indicated by his avatar remaining) on all his alts I know. I posted a message on the Ruins of Alph room just in case he logged out under another account and was around, replied to his VM here but have not got any more sign of life from him since. It is a bit late by me right now and I'll go to bed soon so...requesting either an extension or an activity win I guess.