i believe you completely missed starry's point. their critique is that this thread almost entirely consists of very young and very white LGTBQ folk posting their two liner about their preferred pronouns that is completely devoid of any discussion. and when actual discussion is to be had, it gets shot down because shockingly all people in the LGTBQ community do not think the same. starry is not saying this thread needs to be devoid of happiness and "you're valid" posts but instead that there needs to be a healthy balance of actual discussion of LGTBQ topics. if you are so bent on identity being a continued topic of conversation in this thread then i personally do not understand how you see starry's take on race as a straw man, unless you truly think a gay white man has the same experience as a black trans woman. they're not saying you can't be white and participate in this conversation lolnah but for real, what is the actual reason for posting the second half of this post. I get that the mod talking about getting pegged is definitely not fit for the thread, but then you go out on an escapade attacking all the nice people talking about their LGBTQ+ experiences, coming out, finding out who they are, just because YOU don't feel comfortable discussing more important topics? I don't think anyone would mind more serious discussion, it's not going to derail the thread. Nobody actually cares if it's too "positive", and if you do, how about you just post anyways?! We are literally all a team here, we want the same goal of equality that you do. Its not gonna make people butthurt to discuss serious LGBTQ+ topics in the thread along with the more positive posts. Like, if you really think we can't lead a serious discussion here, then why even post lmao
not even gonna talk about the race/intersectionality talk, it's a wonderful topic to bring up but the way you put it is definitely too targetful and just trying to strawman your argument
tl;dr: nobody minds serious topics here, it's part of the thread's purpose, but also nobody, and I mean NOBODY, except yourself, minds the positive parts, they can coexist. (and if there are others who mind, how about you speak up instead of sitting there and letting this happen with one lousy post)
unironically feel like you need someone to tell you "it's okay to be white"