however when you bring up the -ists and attack them (like PC culture does), they won't changeLots of people are not willing to listen or change their behaviour. Lots of people are not willing to think critically about their behaviour. But there are also people who are well-meaning, but just don't get it yet. And trying to explain something, hoping that those people will learn something, is always worth it.
latter problems like rosie project/atypical are also part through representation and not intentionally trying to discriminateEven if someone would manage to avoid all ableist people, which is not possible... That doesn't erase the fact that there are movies like Rain Man, books like The Rosie Project and series like Atypical, made by non-autistic people,
e: at least, i assume! association with autism speaks and the like negates
wouldn't this also be from PC culture?until I told her about my autism. When I told her, she started talking to me as if I was a child, explaining simple things and speaking extremely slowly. As you can understand, I was no longer interested in befriending her.
they think they're being understanding, but they aren't. unaware that they're being condescending
also telling people about 'tism probably isn't good, maybe a sign that yes you are being oppressed but a reason why you're here
argh this is a problem of acceptance and for completely nonautistic cases (sexism, racism...) i sitll standAs someone who is also autistic, I have to say that this feels like a double standard. I constantly need to be "artificially nice," because most people expect things like eye contact and small talk topics that don't include Arbitrary Code glitches in video games. Doing this doesn't come naturally, it takes effort. And if I'm going to be constantly asked to put in extra effort when talking with people, I don't see the problem with expecting some effort out of other people when they are talking with me.
yeah i wasn't aware of a specific need to tell that they're autistic (assumption that they weren't)I've actively been rejected by people after telling them I'm autistic. People who just treated me normally until I told them.
reponse snipped due to forum rules and being wrong. sorry!First of all, not every autistic person has every autistic trait. Some are more social than others. And not all autistic people stim, or stim in an obvious way. I don't really stim. And a friend of mine sometimes stims by softly tapping a pen or a stim toy, but she always makes sure to not make any loud noises. She hides it very well, especially around non-autistic people. How is that antisocial?
well i was wrong and that's literally illegalGonna call you out on this one because that is "100% bs". I've straight up lost job opportunities over my autism because of sociopathic employers who think my high functioning autism made me unable to work the job. In the UK, this is illegal under discrimination laws (specifically if you reject on disability alone), and I've reported every single one successfully. I've even seen this with friends.
Not to mention Autism Speaks is an organisation that exists and has been thoroughly discredited. Hell, it may as we be a hate group at this point. I suggest doing some research on that one, they willfully ignore basic facts and science to push an agenda that autism is some kind of pandemic rather than your brain being wired differently.
yeah ik about autism speaks and how it sucks
more nuanced thoughts later on a seperate reply
ok yeah i agree with the sentiement BUT don't like the culture and it's still toxicAnd about calling out other people... I don't think there's anything wrong witht hat. If someone believes they have a right to free speech, and the right to say sexist things, for example... Then feminists also have a right to free speech and are allowed to call them out for saying sexist things. If someone believes they have the right to be racist because of a right to free speech... Then don't complain if anti-racists call you out. That's also free speech.
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