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Serious Relationships and Sex Ed Thread
- Thread starter Gabe
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That really depends, how old are you?
15 year old, am i the only one that finds no beauty in younger girls ?
i mean the hormones that make them women are still working you can hardly see the genetic difference between the two sexes until 14-15 !
i personalty enjoy women as the women should be not some skinny short girl that has no idea about life or whatsoever.
Go for the 18 year old you also wont risk getting suit by her parents for sexual abuse.
i mean the hormones that make them women are still working you can hardly see the genetic difference between the two sexes until 14-15 !
i personalty enjoy women as the women should be not some skinny short girl that has no idea about life or whatsoever.
Go for the 18 year old you also wont risk getting suit by her parents for sexual abuse.
bloody hell, im not sure if this is the right place to put this, but im gonna do it anyway.
i dont have alot of sexual experience, but my gf, which i have been with for over 2 years now, (who'se also a bit uncomfortable with that stuff because she's sort of religious), wants to do it with me but without violating the “rules” set by the bible (i.e. sex is forbidden without marriage and shit like that.)
any loop holes/ideas, as im not willing to buy a copy of the bible and read all of it just for some quick sex.
btw, im 16 yrs old, so yeah.
i dont have alot of sexual experience, but my gf, which i have been with for over 2 years now, (who'se also a bit uncomfortable with that stuff because she's sort of religious), wants to do it with me but without violating the “rules” set by the bible (i.e. sex is forbidden without marriage and shit like that.)
any loop holes/ideas, as im not willing to buy a copy of the bible and read all of it just for some quick sex.
btw, im 16 yrs old, so yeah.
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if you want to have sex while following the bible, you have to get married. no loopholes there ¬_¬
Well check out Ezekiel 23:19-21 for a brief synopsis on how Bible views all instances of unmarried sex.
Alright then, problem solved.
@dead mans oddysey the Bible never specified that you had to be legally married.
Oral sex !
lol whatever you guys end up doing, it'll be premarital sex if it involves the genitals
You may want to look into your state's consent laws then if y'all plan on doing anything. I'm not saying you shouldn't date her or anything, just saying you should be careful.
I've kept my virginity intact for 19 years. A few more months should be easy.
i dunno about yours, but my sperm will literally bore through the intestinal wall to get to the womb
oddysey, why don't you just ask her what she had in mind since it's her ruleset, nor yours? I'm pretty sure you don't have to decide what is and isn't appropriate within a religion you don't follow. Not to mention lots of people have different definitions of what's bible appropriate, from grinding only all the way to anal and/or "just the tip".
Also will never cease to be amazed at the amount of people who are happy to go back into the high school dating pool after leaving, but that's another story entirely.
Also will never cease to be amazed at the amount of people who are happy to go back into the high school dating pool after leaving, but that's another story entirely.
Yeah, the Bible contradicts itself semi-often, especially due to discrepancies between the Old and New Testaments. Reading that book will not really get you far into hearing what she wants, especially since they speak [as I recall] in this strange blend of old and modern English that is difficult to make sense of unless you've read it for a long time.
for some actual relationship shit
my boyfriend is traveling abroad for 3 weeks and im not really into the whole "talk every day or so thing"; im more of a face-to-face (no not skype) person and it makes me feel really bad cuz i go all "im the worst boyfriend ever"
i want him back and see the pictures and all but while he's gone i'd rather there be some actual space or something.
maybe i should just tell him instead of telling all of you
also 6 months next week yay
edit: i think after those two long-distance "relationships" i had i really dont wanna deal talking with someone i love very often over the internet or IMs or whatever, its just like no.
my boyfriend is traveling abroad for 3 weeks and im not really into the whole "talk every day or so thing"; im more of a face-to-face (no not skype) person and it makes me feel really bad cuz i go all "im the worst boyfriend ever"
i want him back and see the pictures and all but while he's gone i'd rather there be some actual space or something.
maybe i should just tell him instead of telling all of you
also 6 months next week yay
edit: i think after those two long-distance "relationships" i had i really dont wanna deal talking with someone i love very often over the internet or IMs or whatever, its just like no.
Don't feel any guilt over that, I'm the same way. If I don't have physical contact with a person, I begin to lose interest. To me, there is nothing worse than talking on the phone every single day, because in my experiences, every relationship I had where that happened has failed, because we inevitably run out of new shit to talk about way too quickly. But, if you talk too little, then you lose interest in each other, so there is a balance to strike there if you want the long distance to work.
But really, 3 weeks of travel is not as bad as circumstances could be. For me, I tried to hold a relationship with a girl in San Jose, CA (from Buffalo). After that, I tried Boston, and still didn't work. I just don't work long distance, and I've accepted it.
But really, 3 weeks of travel is not as bad as circumstances could be. For me, I tried to hold a relationship with a girl in San Jose, CA (from Buffalo). After that, I tried Boston, and still didn't work. I just don't work long distance, and I've accepted it.
you were just saying your attention was divided, i am going to guess secretly
My girlfriend is really afraid of sex. I'm 17 and she's almost 14, so there is a small age gap, but she is really afraid of sex. She's a late bloomer and actually just got her first period three or four months ago, so maybe her vagina is weirding out her hormones or something. Anyone have any ideas of how I can warm her up to the idea?