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Contacted my opponent on Monday, they haven't replied and they also haven't been on the forums since Saturday when they posted 'in'. Not sure if it's too early to say, but I don't think I'll be getting a reply back from them.
yes lol (assuming you guys are able to schedule properly, but the fact that he let you know he'll only be available after the 16th is a sign that he's willing to get this done, so there's no reason for me to sub any of you out in this case)