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Yesterday, someone in my school committed suicide.

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Unakau said:
THIS IS DIFFERENT

You didn't show him that you were concerned about him. Considering that he told you, he kind of wanted you to. You didn't do a god damned thing to say "HEY I'M YOUR FRIEND AND I CARE ABOUT YOU."
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Because apparently he was fake the entire time, how pathetic. Why would you fake being friends with someone, leave them alone.
 
God what a fucked up world this is. A kid kills himself and your friends celebrate? You don't care because you were only "pretending" to be his friend? How can you even tell people that without being overwhelmed by guilt?

I have had multiple friends (and a couple more more acquaintances) who have tried to commit suicide, and I would be fucking in tears if any of them had actually done it. I'm a fairly timid person and I can say with confidence that I would personally kick the shit out of any of your friends if they had been "celebrating" after someone committed suicide.

Sorry if this is a bit harsh but it's a touchy subject for me =/
 
It's a long story, kagster.

And I wasnt the only one he told
He actually told people that actually cared about him, and they tried everything they could.
 
You should still feel god damned ashamed for...

A. Not trying.

B. Not caring.

I'm sorry if I'm being harsh, but it's the god damned truth.
 
False, I pretended to be his friend to listen to what he was saying about my real friends. He had a serious grudge against them all and liked to talk shit.
 
Honestly, that's just sick. The fact that your friends celebrated is what's worse though. Do kids make fun of other kids out of sheer hatred? The fact that they aren't just stricken with absolute guilt is a sign that perhaps the deceased isn't the only one with problems.

I concur with skiddle, I was picked on a lot too because I was really smart and really shy and awkward, and it was terrible. It was never bad enough that I contemplated suicide, but I did have a lot of bottled rage and one day I absolutely blew up on someone, worst day of my life (it's not as if he wasn't asking for it, though).
 
I'm actually glad he's not beating himself up over it, that would be pointless.

You just have to move on in these situations.
 
Just wondering, are your friends in like middle school or something? I can't think of anybody I know who would celebrate somebody's death.
 
B-rock said:
I'm actually glad he's not beating himself up over it, that would be pointless.
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Uh, pointless? Even if he couldn't do anything about it, it would show he had a shred of empathy and decency. It's a lot more healthy to feel guilt over someone's death that you may have been involved in (or if you were his friend) than to say "I wasn't his friend anyways, it's cool". Even if you didn't know them at all, you still should feel a little bad, especially when it's as local as your own fucking school.
 
umbarsc said:
Uh, pointless? Even if he couldn't do anything about it, it would show he had a shred of empathy and decency. It's a lot more healthy to feel guilt over someone's death that you may have been involved in (or if you were his friend) than to say "I wasn't his friend anyways, it's cool". Even if you didn't know them at all, you still should feel a little bad, especially when it's as local as your own fucking school.
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I know, but letting it bother you will only hold you back from getting over it.
 
I've felt bad when people I hated died?

when people die you don't just shrug it off unless you're a really cold, sick person. especially if the guy told you he was gonna kill himself and you decided that instead of try and stop him you were gonna just not talk to him. how the hell can you even live with yourself? his life was pretty much in your hands and you fucking disregarded it. I mean, even if he wasn't the best of friends with you you should've said something to cheer him up or something. I'm surprised and appalled at the fact that you aren't beating yourself up over this. I am so surprised, in fact, at the way you acted, that I'm almost willing to think that this is all some ploy to get attention on the internet, and if that is the case, you're all the sicker for joking around about something as serious as this.

and to the kid who says "move on" if you can just move on when someone dies like that you are a fucking robot and belong in a fucking junkyard. you don't just "move on." people I know have had people they hate die and still have fits of depression and guilt in knowing that they could've stopped it. it took me 5 years to move on from the loss of my brother and even then I still have these days where all I do is think about how I could've prevented his death.

jeez if I go on I'm gonna end up calling people some things I might regret so I'm gonna stop now.
 
COalex said:
Just wondering, are your friends in like middle school or something? I can't think of anybody I know who would celebrate somebody's death.
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This.
Also, I still can't believe that you are emotionless about what happened. Jesus Christ....I get so pissed when this shit happens. Assholes.
 
Stathakis said:
I've felt bad when people I hated died?

when people die you don't just shrug it off unless you're a really cold, sick person. especially if the guy told you he was gonna kill himself and you decided that instead of try and stop him you were gonna just not talk to him. how the hell can you even live with yourself? his life was pretty much in your hands and you fucking disregarded it. I mean, even if he wasn't the best of friends with you you should've said something to cheer him up or something. I'm surprised and appalled at the fact that you aren't beating yourself up over this. I am so surprised, in fact, at the way you acted, that I'm almost willing to think that this is all some ploy to get attention on the internet, and if that is the case, you're all the sicker for joking around about something as serious as this.

and to the kid who says "move on" if you can just move on when someone dies like that you are a fucking robot and belong in a fucking junkyard. you don't just "move on." people I know have had people they hate die and still have fits of depression and guilt in knowing that they could've stopped it. it took me 5 years to move on from the loss of my brother and even then I still have these days where all I do is think about how I could've prevented his death.

jeez if I go on I'm gonna end up calling people some things I might regret so I'm gonna stop now.
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Oh I done it agian. XD

Why promote grief when grief is what caused this problem in the first place?

Maybe if more people were as strong willed as I am, the world would be a much more stable place.
 
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we promote grief because we are fucking sad that things happened. the only way you could not be sad is if you didn't fucking care (and are a robot). it has nothing to do with a strong will.
 
This stuff is why i take the time to talk to emo people. They are usually really grateful for your friendship, and they actually tell you so. It's really rewarding.

I made up my mind to do this when i saw a picture of slit wrists on the internet. For your sanity, do not look it up.
 
sumginazu said:
This stuff is why i take the time to talk to emo people. They are usually really grateful for your friendship, and they actually tell you so. It's really rewarding.

I made up my mind to do this when i saw a picture of slit wrists on the internet. For your sanity, do not look it up.
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clearly we need more people like you in the world. if everyone was like you (and not brock) shootings and suicides wouldn't fucking happen. you get my props even if they don't mean much =/
 
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