I respectfully disagree.
The wage gap has been debunked many times. The study often cited took the average earnings of men, and the average earnings of women, and found men, on average, make more. This is due to men occupying many more jobs in higher paying stem fields. Its not that women are graduating with these degrees and then getting forced out of their jobs due to harrasment. Its that women are opting not to get degrees in these fields in the first place. I'd very much like a source on the idea that if men and women are equal people will hire men. That is illegal, and if it happens, it should be a pretty open and shut case for a civil suite. Same goes with worplace harassment. Lawyers would jump all over that case.
Domestic abuse and sexual violence numbers are widely believed to be heavily under reported by men, so comparing the two rates is disingenuous, at least in my view. Women typically aren't physical abusers, since men are typically stronger. I was pretty badly emotionally abused by an ex girlfriend, until I decided I deserved better. Does that mean there's a systemic issue with emotionally abusive women? No. There are shitty women, just like there are shitty men. I actually recently read a study that lesbian women are most likely to be abused by their spouses. How many battered men's shelters are there? My mother was a victim of domestic abuse, and I wasn't even allowed to be with her in the shelter because of my genitals. I would say that's rather sexist, but I wouldn't say it was society's fault.
As for pay inexplicably dropping, I find that extremely hard to believe. Think about it. If women really were paid less them men, every company on the United States would be scrambling to hire female employees. The idea of the wage gap is in direct conflict with our economic system.
As for Trans people, I completely agree. I think its disgusting that politicians are trying to regulate where people are allowed to use the restroom, and I don't deny that trans people still face hate, and the people that support that view are at best ignorant.
I don't deny sexism, racism, or homophobia are real, I deny that its a systemic issue in society. These are individuals acting like assholes, and should be addressed that way. I just find this perpetual victimhood annoying. As someone who was the victim of circumstances, I was able to pull myself from far below the poverty line on my own merit, and attributing that to my skin color or sexuality is bullshit. I got here because I worked my ass off. When everyone else was out playing I was studying or going to work. In my opinion there comes a time when you need to stop blaming society and take personal responsibilty for you socioeconomic position in life. This view might just be a result of the way I've experienced my life thus far though, so make of that what you will.
Again, I respectfully disagree with you.