I'm still a virgin and intend to keep my virginity until I meet a man who will marry me.
They want to use me so I let them think they're going to use me but I instead use them. The actions are as selfish as one another. I believe that I'm doing something beneficial because I'm teaching them to not just think with their dick. If they want to smooch me, play with me and suck on me I might as well sit back and enjoy it while receiving free things.
Hate to break it to you, honey, but oral sex IS sex.
You're acting just like these guys you are dating... You can't accuse them of being wrong since you're doing it yourself. Two wrongs don't make a right. You seem just as selfish as the boys who want to 'take advantage of you.'
I'm saving my virginity for marriage because I only want to have my husband and jesus inside me. God says in the bible that sex before marriage is a sin so I don't participate in it. I also don't want to look my child in the eye and have him know that I had sex with many different men. How could they respect their mother?
The Bible emphasizes purity. It does not encourage walking as close as you can to the line and claiming that you never crossed it. If you were truly serious, you would realize the purpose of the seventh commandment. It's protection against getting hurt, keeping yourself pure til marriage. Taking advantage of every guy's hormones does not go well with God's instructions. What about lies? Those are against God's established law, yet you still seem to find that apporpriate to 'teach these boys a lesson.'
Would you like to look your child in the eye and tell them that you've enjoyed the affections of other men? I sure wouldn't. It's just as bad.
If I can resist my urges to have sex then they should too. It's obvious that most of the men want sex, even the ones who claim to be christian. A real man would be prepared to show his love with his savings account by spending his money on a ring. If someone claims to love you then money is of little importance.
I think the current internet generation has placed such little value on marriage and true love that they expect that everyone will be as depraved as they are. Don't you think it's sad that casual fucking without intimate feelings and even plans for a future takes place?
So, you seem to be implying that if these guys bought you a ring, you would be happy with them. As long as they spend a fortune on you, you will be satisfied. Yet you don't seem to care very much about their feelings or hormonal tendencies.
Don't make assumptions about the current internet generation. You're sticking us all into one group and looking down on us. Yet, you seem to be on the internet as well. You can group yourself in with all of us who are "love-deprived" on the internet. ^_^
I personally think that it's a lot more sad to see someone like you be confused about the specifications of the Christian faith. You claim that you're living correctly and that we should all follow your tactics. You emphasize your good deeds and moral standards and character and then imply that we're all completely nuts because we don't take advantage of our partners.
The richer someone is usually indicates how much effort they're willing to put into their life. If they're willing to be dedicated to a job they're much more likely to be dedicated to a relationship and provide.
It's the same reasoning for not dating someone who is overweight; they're much more likely to be lazy and put far less effort into their work life and consequently put far less effort into their love life.
If you're too lazy to go out and buy these wonderful gifts for yourself instead of simply accepting them from guys you don't care about, that says a lot about your character.
@MrIndigo- very well said. It's been awhile since we've talked in here.
EDIT: It seems our troll left. Too bad. I was enjoying the logic. At least I got most of it quoted beforehand. ^_^
