what bothers me more is not that you're bothering me, but the fact that you think I'm bothered by your bothering.
Don't be so timid. If you want something, ask, even if you only want a conversation. People aren't going to respect you if you're always so polite and defeatable. Be confident. You don't have to be rude; just be firm.
It really annoys me how you're always worried that I'll be bothered if you even just talk to me. Of course not! I enjoy conversations with everybody, as long as a friendly nature can be kept.
What's up?