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If you really, truly want a Gallade, since you haven't been approved yet you could probably make a ninja edit. Or, after 1 or 2 battles you could purchase another Ralts, male this time if you get approved before you see this.
Yes, thank you! I forgot that Ralts needs to be male for Gallade, So I'll keep her female and change her nature, thanks for the advice! :)