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That's a really poor activity call, SBPC. You cannot expect them to contact you at the time but not contact them yourself at the time. You being online means nothing if you didn't reach out, so it's the fault of you both.
Saying "on rn" afterwards means absolutely nothing as there was no schedule for that time either.
Try to schedule an actual time over the rest of this week please.