act, opp missed scheduled time and i waited over 30 mins
edit: we played
https://replay.pokemonshowdown.com/gen9mixandmega-2422787571-yus1jrjddtcy5e9wo082gp6fo48vsubpw?p2
https://replay.pokemonshowdown.com/gen9mixandmega-2422791725-pql3f71sm35w5bc4owyscjc7qc0vloupw
won ggs