Help me work out my relationship issue

Darkinium

Darkinium

the mighty nuaguunibi
I've been dating this cute guy for about a year now. We met a while back at a party and bonded over our similar taste in music. He asked me out with no issues at all and it's been going really smoothly ever since. However, a couple weeks back, we hit a bit of a rough patch and decided to take a bit of a break. We're definitely still together, but I began to spend more time with my friends and he his. We have since gotten back together, but I met this guy at a party last week. Not gonna lie, he's really hot and I think he has a big dick; most importantly, he's a Smogon pre-contributor. We have similar taste in music so I asked for his number. Since then, I've tried casually bringing it up with my boyfriend but I think he may be suspecting something. The sidepiece hasn't formally asked me out yet, but I'm thinking I may have to do it first. My boyfriend has been a Smogoner since October 2020, and has a like : post ratio of about 3:1 with 132 posts. Now, that's not bad, and I love him very much, but this new guy... He's been around since March 2014, and maintains a like : post ratio of about 5, with almost 2,000 posts; sounds a man with experience who knows what he's doing. I love my boyfriend, but I'm thinking more and more that something has to give. I've never been in this situation and I'm not sure what to do. Help me Smogoff!
 
I have scientifically figured out that you should go with this new guy.
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Go with the one that gives you a cool pebble

EDIT: My number is 972-258-8507 btw if you're interested, I don't have a dingle dongle but i do have a fat stack of rocks to offer
 
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didn't read, but here to give you advice on how to work out your relationship

the important point is to set goals and hit your macros

relationship groups get stagnant if you don't mix it up, so confuse your relationship

call your s/o by a different name, act wildly different from one day to the next

actively seek to get out of your comfort zone — this is where real growth happens

for instance, you could tell them you love them and that you'll be right back, and then leave the house for 3 weeks w/o a word of warning

mix it up
 
Gosh, that sounds like a tough situation. For me personally, I think I would have to go with the new guy. You want a guy with experience, and, well, I think 2000 posts speak for themselves. With that much experience, he can probably schedule with even the northeasternmost Americans.
 
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