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If you feel that urgently to join the MO HQ, the easiest way is to sign up for Special Ops, and pass the qualifier. If you do, you're invited since Spec. Ops is hoste by the military.
Also, if you only want people who will never point out your wrongs or say things against you in your group, I'll go with that. Just don't expect TRC to last long like that.