evolutia, you have every right to have the attitude that you have, but honestly, the best thing to do here is to move on. What the people are doing here using the word is the same thing that Mark Twain is doing - parodying its use so that it loses its power. Many people are unfairly treated, but pitying yourself and holding it over other people's heads isn't going to change anything. There's a Vietnamese girl whose village got napalmed - I can't remember her name, but she spoke to a group of students once - and she had every right to spend the rest of her life hating Americans and pitying herself after that, but instead she's made peace with the guy who did it and is active in humanitarian efforts, using her experiences for good. There's a similar story with a Jewish woman who suffered through a concentration camp, and eventually ending up forgiving one of the Nazis in her camp later on.
First and foremost, I do not take certain online comments as seriously as I would someone in real life making the same one. Doing so would require to much energy.
I don't think using the N-word in that manner is doing much of anything to be honest, it certainly isn't changing my mind. Your examples of forgiveness while heartwarming are not applicable to me. I'm perfectly justified in not forgiving those who wronged me and it doesn't take much effort. I just ignore them :/
You're not doing us much good with your lecture. You're merely giving the word undeserved power; you're only hurting yourself; and perhaps most importantly, you're depriving yourself of one of the greatest writers of all time. It would be very sad indeed if Jews never read Shakespeare, or if Christians never watched The Simpsons or played Shin Megami Tensei, or if no one ever listened to a stand-up comedian... all because they were "offended" and took things the wrong way. Hell, are you aware of what Jynx is supposed to be?
Not wanting to read a particular book is hardly "harmful". I don't like the word due to life experiences. I also don't care to discuss the subject of the book, in a classroom, with children/teenagers who may or may not take it seriously, and ask or joke about certain subject matter which I find abhorrent. I'm not a teacher nor do I have the patience to deal with a situation that I can simply op-out of.
Your other examples seem like a facetious attempt at best. People make there own choices.
As for you Jynx example, it can be interpreted in different ways. Some think it was a black face parody and others thought it was a fashion trend. I don't care either way. I actually like the pokemon competitively wise.