My judo teacher who I've known for the majority of my life died of complications after a surgery to remove a tumour. He was 86 and I have no idea what to do.
This is the first time in my life somebody close to me has died. He always seemed really strong. Only a few weeks before the surgery he was still teaching classes and going for jogs. For him to just die like that really scares me. I feel really helpless.
I want to talk to his family but I don't know what to say. I don't want to mourn him or go to his funeral something about the thought of doing that really fucks me up. but I don't know if I can refuse.
Im really scared and anxious now. I can't eat or drink and the thought of people even closer to me dying is making me feel even worse. I feel like an asshole for not wanting to go to my teacher's funeral.
I don't want to leave my house and I've never been this scared in my whole life. I don't know how to deal with somebody important to you just dying. I don't want to talk to my dad because he's friends with the man and I wouldn't know what to say.
At this point I'm just venting out crap in my mind. I don't know how to deal with this. I'm probably not in any good mental state to be even posting online but whatever I feel sick enough that I don't care.
This is the first time in my life somebody close to me has died. He always seemed really strong. Only a few weeks before the surgery he was still teaching classes and going for jogs. For him to just die like that really scares me. I feel really helpless.
I want to talk to his family but I don't know what to say. I don't want to mourn him or go to his funeral something about the thought of doing that really fucks me up. but I don't know if I can refuse.
Im really scared and anxious now. I can't eat or drink and the thought of people even closer to me dying is making me feel even worse. I feel like an asshole for not wanting to go to my teacher's funeral.
I don't want to leave my house and I've never been this scared in my whole life. I don't know how to deal with somebody important to you just dying. I don't want to talk to my dad because he's friends with the man and I wouldn't know what to say.
At this point I'm just venting out crap in my mind. I don't know how to deal with this. I'm probably not in any good mental state to be even posting online but whatever I feel sick enough that I don't care.