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I'm in the Smoochum Group for XY OU and there are only two opponents I have not played: Frochtejohgurt and Exa. Neither one has messaged me at all or replied to the messages I've left them, and by the look of things everyone else in my group is also getting no response from at least Frochtejohgurt.