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not post about it while wasted ; )

but really, i personally would NOT talk to the friend about it, as it could potentially mess up any chances with the girl, in addition to making things uneasy with the friend! time is the answer, i'd say.
 
yeah i hate that shit. i have this automatic "FUCK NO" that goes off in my brain if say one of my good friends is in love with a girl we both find attractive. same thing if i find out ANY girl is in a relationship. i wouldn't want some dude trying to get with my girlfriend either. go with pneuma here. find some sexy girl at the bar and fuck your attraction away ^_^
 
Ick, a million apologies for posting anything in Congregation when drunk. I should stick to the Firebot forums. I don't even know what the hell the thread name has to do with the topic...

But anyhow, I'm fine when I'm sober, but the thing that worries me is the fact that I'm drunk whenever I'm hanging out with my friend and his girlfriend, and I'm worried I'm drunkenly going to do something. I know perfectly well that I should just forget about it...
 
1 of my 2 female situations are similar. except my friend likes this girl so i tried to play macth maker. they hang out but she is all over me. iw ould go out with her but i dont want to hurt his feelings.since i knew him since middle school(11th currently). she i hawt though. she took my soda bottle frenches it then sticks it in my mouth O_o

do like i do. just let time take its course.
 
i would suggest finding things about her you dont find attractive and every time you get the urge for her think hard about those things. also, icey, why would you give your friend a girl who is obviously all over you? a real friend would understand when he doesnt have a chance and wouldnt hold it against you for taking a piece of that action.
 
I don't know, I think ultimately what it comes down to is that I'm lonely, and while casual encounters with girls are great and all, I'm at a state where I really do want to be in a relationship.

I had a thing for this girl a while ago, when she was still single, and didn't try to pursue it because of a friend (a female one this time, who asked me not to date inside her social circle). That's no longer an issue, but now I've become pretty decent friends with her current boyfriend, and as such have been hanging out with the two of them a lot.

I always have a great time with them, but whenever I get really drunk, I end up thinking about how awesome she is, and I find myself very much attracted to her. It's to the point where part of me is worried that I might try and do something when I'm shitfaced, and I really don't want to do that. Her boyfriend is really a decent guy and has dealt with more than his fair share of drama because of that relationship anyhow (ex-boyfriend issues I won't get into). I don't want to shit on him.

And I won't. I plan to just let things be. But apparently when I get drunk enough, even if I won't let myself do anything about the situation, I end up pining about it after they leave and making drunken topics on Smogon.
 
If I was attracted to someone who was going out with a close friend I would usually ignore feelings towards that person, since your going to hurt your friend for someone you don't even know and I usually find some else I like.
 
LazarusLong said:
Ick, a million apologies for posting anything in Congregation when drunk. I should stick to the Firebot forums. I don't even know what the hell the thread name has to do with the topic...

But anyhow, I'm fine when I'm sober, but the thing that worries me is the fact that I'm drunk whenever I'm hanging out with my friend and his girlfriend, and I'm worried I'm drunkenly going to do something. I know perfectly well that I should just forget about it...
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If you're drunk, you're not responsible for whatever might happen and you can always blame whatever happened on inebriation =)
 
Altmer said:
If you're drunk, you're not responsible for whatever might happen and you can always blame whatever happened on inebriation =)
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Yeah, but the state of being drunk is self-induced, so that's not good enough of an excuse. :]
 
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Yeah, but the state of being drunk is self-induced, so that's not good enough of an excuse. :]
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I fail to see how that is relevant, you think anyone would get themselves drunk so they could fuck/do other things with their best mate's gf? =/ makes no sense to me
 
I know that I've called my friend's girlfriends and such hot before, but I don't think I've ever liked them that way. If I did, I still wouldn't go there, those are dangerous waters to tread in.

Basically Kongler's quote is true!
 
was he your friend first or was she your friend first? if she is really hot just wait til they break up then get her, unless they are in a long relationship, then get your own
 
This reminds me of my best mate who hooked up with my other's best mate ex-gf's twice... and he's still with the last one. Hooking up after break-ups always works for him.
 
the same thing happened to me. My school is actually males only but in the mid-year exams we went to the females' school for the exams there i saw my neighbour that i have a crush on. so i thought that well i don't think anyone i'd know would know her because of the issolation(sp?) just when i was about to make my move i saw her with a friend of mine and asked him later and turns out he's goin out with her. eventually i got over it and while me and that guy and another friend were walking(i told that other friend) we passed beside her and the guy was dumb enough to say: ISN'T THAT THE GIRL YOU LIKE?
Now me and the guy hardly know each other anymore.

so my advice is get over her stay away from her and the person she's dating and don't tell any of you're friends
 
Simple. Pay a hit man to "accidentally" kill your friend. Then when the girl you like is all sad, give her a big hug and do something to confort her. Then she starts liking you, and yea....
 
Wait for them to break-up, while dating someone else (so it's not obvious you are after her). Girls eventually find something wrong with their new BFriends, be close to her, and listen to what he tells you about her. This way when they break-up, you know what not to do b/c you know what she doesn't like (b/c she told you), and you know what to do (b/c your friend who is dating her told you about her).

Also, when they break-up, wait 4 weeks (and that will give you enough time to break-up with your girlfriend, and then you can be "relatable b/c we were both so hurt..."). That will be enough time for it to still be recent, but long enough for her to "be over him." 4 weeks is good b/c she will still feel like she needs someone, unless the break-up is terrible and she doesn't want a relationship, or ends up "hating boys." (Which I doubt would happen).
 
but if they break up, and he goes after her, he could piss his friend off still.


anyway, do what kongler said, and you should be good.
 
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