You need to get an AR. lol There is no point in soft resetting unless you have one. =) You basically.. breed two Pokémon. Wait for an egg to appear. You save infront of the daycare man. Then you pick the egg up, hatch it. If its the ability, nature and gender you want you turn off the game and turn it on again untill you hatch an egg that has the IV's you want. If its not the gender/nature etc you want you get a new egg and save just before you pick it up etc.