I recognize that people are kind of being dicks to you because you have a different opinion, but I know you're new, so it's a bit ridiculous to hold you to high standards and not attempt to help. Check out the Forum Rules, the OU Ban List, and if you want to have someone help you learn, you can even check out Battling 101, where you sign up for a tutor (not trying to insult, but you can learn there if you want).