Personally, I think us as humans do have a choice in anything we do in life. Everyone is an individuals and everyone has their own beliefs. Sure there may be times we are forced to do things against your will, but then again you have a will. You can decide what is right, or wrong. And our thoughts are all kept within. No one knows what you're thinking except yourself. You can think what you want, so I guess that's a choice? Well the "who we love" part is harder. I think a lot of people love their family members and friends. I don't like my older brother or my father. Frankly, I HATEEEE them. Like for real hate. Not like "not get along" hate but like... I hope you get my point XD. I love my twin brother, my nanny and my mother. Friends too. And you can't fall in love with anyone you want so I guess we dont really have a choice in "true" love or something :p It just happens.