You only need my Platinum FC for this trade. I have both pokes on Platinum as well. Next trade, I will probably only use my HG FC. I can transfer pokes between cards here at home. I just borrow one of my kids' DS.
I just write male or female on my thread. Last time I tried to find the male/female symbols, I used google, but I don't know where the link is now. There's some way to do it using ASCII as well, but I forget how.
I'm going on wifi now.