Princess, I know you probably don't think this is my business but since I have been drag into this because of that Girl's insolence, I'm going to ask you anyway. Was that really Red's sister using his account?
Not only she was being mean and using Red's smogon account, she also deactivated Red's facebook. Which of coarse, I find it wrong and very harsh of her to do (unless Red told her to which I don't think he could have judging by her treacherous insolence and not telling what's happening to Red)
EDIT: And Also, Happy late Birthday! :)