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ftr:
I explained to him that I was out with my family with plans they made up a couple hours before we actually went and told himI'd be a little late (ended up being a little over 30 mins). I know its late for Alexander now so playing now is not in the question but I'd really like to not get activity'd out of this cup if I can help it