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Google Knight

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Well, I'm at university away from home, so I'm living in another house. My mother came with me. The idea was that she was with me till I adapted. But now I'm adapted and she has been with me for 8 months. I have girlfriend, I have all here, but my mother wants that I go with her in summer to home with her. I want to be here, and I want to live alone. What could I do? She doesnt want to leave me alone because she says I act like a child. Should I clean and all that to demonstrate her I'm not a child? Or should I get angry with her to make her see I won't go? Or them both?
 
Umm
remind your mother that you're an adult and that you had to fly the nest eventually?
I take it you don't have a younger brother.
 
just tell her to go away. you have a gf and you plan on fucking her around the house, so you don't want your mom everywhere

and call your dad to bring the hammer down on her and put her in her place
 
you're an adult, she can't expect to be with you forever. just tell her to leave and that you'll call her if you need any help
 
It doesn't seem like you have the drive to be considered an adult, as you're only now concerned since your mother wants to take you back home. Did you let her just assume the roles she had when you were a child (whether they be cooking/cleaning/insert more stay-at-home mom things here)? If for the most part you did, then she has no reason to believe that you're ready to stay alone, 'cause for her, growing up isn't having a girlfriend or being at college, it's if you can take care of yourself.

If this is the case, then you gotta show her the intangibles she's looking for and quick. You getting angry will only prove her right through her eyes. You may get the results your looking for, but not in the best way possible as she'll prolly be calling/checking up on you constantly from that point.

If you have been taking your mother's roles since you moved to uni, then I'd guess it's more of your mother being over protective. Talk to some relatives or friends that are close to her and explain the situation, and ask them to either try talking to your mom to let you stay at uni, or have them find out why your mother is so reluctant to have you stay away from home. Then you'd be able to confront those issues yourself.
 
Google Knight said:
Well, I'm at university away from home, so I'm living in another house. My mother came with me. The idea was that she was with me till I adapted. But now I'm adapted and she has been with me for 8 months. I have girlfriend, I have all here, but my mother wants that I go with her in summer to home with her. I want to be here, and I want to live alone. What could I do? She doesnt want to leave me alone because she says I act like a child. Should I clean and all that to demonstrate her I'm not a child? Or should I get angry with her to make her see I won't go? Or them both?
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Why would you even do that?
 
ok from what I can tell you've made three major mistakes:

1. you let your mom move in with you in the first place
2. you let her clean up after you after she moved in
3. you came to a forum to ask what to do about it
 
what the hell

is this a serious topic

shit, maybe all that bullshit with clingy helicopter parents and helpless kids in our generation is true

you have to be kidding me
 
Nastyjungle said:
ok from what I can tell you've made three major mistakes:

1. you let your mom move in with you in the first place
2. you let her clean up after you after she moved in
3. you came to a forum to ask what to do about it
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honestly, number 1 is such a huge mistake that the consequences are irrevocable and you have no hope
 
Your mother says you act like a child. So she wants you to live with her.

There is only one way to prove her wrong. Hint, don't fucking move in with your mother.
 
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