Problem(s) with girlfriend

[StonerJ]

Uh oh man, thats usually "when the tide is getting rough, it goes down hill for good" time.

It doesn't sound like, well if she is reading these posts that would be a good reason to be quiet. My only suggestion is do what normally, guys don't do. When they just sit there quietly (I had a quiet one, but never did this) just go for it. Start making out with them, feeling them up, and progressing further. I don't know what the Hell they want when it comes to times like this but its some kind of test and usually dudes fail because they can't figure out wtf is up with their bitch.

The point being, this is a little game and these little games really suck. The last relation I was in that I was actually interested in, I asked her what she wanted and she couldn't answer that. So I told her "Well I want a Woman that Knows what She wants, not a little girl who doesn't." and her response was "Little Girl?!?" at that point it went downhill because all this chick wanted to do was smoke ciggs, "hang out" and (in her words) have "episodic events" with Meth. Now I think I see videos of her ever now and then, if you catch my drift. :P

No thanks! Kicked that one under the tire A.S.A.P.

Then there was this old GF of mine that moved off to the 'big city'. Now you know that is never good, but as a child I missed some things:

She is fat and ugly, She took medication, She was Psychotic, probably because of the medication.

If you really needed a second point, there are chicks out there now that I call "scarey bitches" in the sense that they are just nasty looking, probably are a junky of some chemical drug and have an unhealthy obsession for extrasexual activities. Haha, my only reaction to them is Run the other direction! Run very fast!


But seriously, it looks like its getting to the point of no return. If you can't figure this chicks "deal" out then they typically want to "take a break" only to go the next day and ride the saddle in some other barn.

Thats why they are so evil.

 

[Thunderpup]

Uh oh man, thats usually "when the tide is getting rough, it goes down hill for good" time.

It doesn't sound like, well if she is reading these posts that would be a good reason to be quiet. My only suggestion is do what normally, guys don't do. When they just sit there quietly (I had a quiet one, but never did this) just go for it. Start making out with them, feeling them up, and progressing further. I don't know what the Hell they want when it comes to times like this but its some kind of test and usually dudes fail because they can't figure out wtf is up with their bitch.

The point being, this is a little game and these little games really suck. The last relation I was in that I was actually interested in, I asked her what she wanted and she couldn't answer that. So I told her "Well I want a Woman that Knows what She wants, not a little girl who doesn't." and her response was "Little Girl?!?" at that point it went downhill because all this chick wanted to do was smoke ciggs, "hang out" and (in her words) have "episodic events" with Meth. Now I think I see videos of her ever now and then, if you catch my drift. :P

No thanks! Kicked that one under the tire A.S.A.P.

Then there was this old GF of mine that moved off to the 'big city'. Now you know that is never good, but as a child I missed some things:

She is fat and ugly, She took medication, She was Psychotic, probably because of the medication.

If you really needed a second point, there are chicks out there now that I call "scarey bitches" in the sense that they are just nasty looking, probably are a junky of some chemical drug and have an unhealthy obsession for extrasexual activities. Haha, my only reaction to them is Run the other direction! Run very fast!


But seriously, it looks like its getting to the point of no return. If you can't figure this chicks "deal" out then they typically want to "take a break" only to go the next day and ride the saddle in some other barn.

Thats why they are so evil.

Personally, I'm a firm believer that unattractive people find other unattractive people, and the way that you talk about these girls makes me believe that you aren't exactly the best fish in the sea.

 

[NESgamer]

Well i don't agree Thunderpup, not completely i mean (in this case, yeah).

Some people look for the easier to dominate,or someone "worst" just to shine.

I believe people is more unnatractive in their persona than in the physical aspect, so even if there is attraction in the beginning, it really ends when they open the mouth...

Anyway, Echo i really hope things get better, i can tell you really care for her. I mean i can notice you're putting some effort in this, even asking for advice to some strangers like us!.

 

[mf]

the best thing for these kind of situations is to write it all down like you've done. then, if you want to take it further, show her what you have written (or write to her directly). its the easiest way to make yourself clear and avoid heated arguments, and try to work through it

 

[Echo]

the best thing for these kind of situations is to write it all down like you've done. then, if you want to take it further, show her what you have written (or write to her directly). its the easiest way to make yourself clear and avoid heated arguments, and try to work through it

I'd show her directly if she'd understand half of what I've typed down. Her English isn't that great while mine is pretty much on a native-speaker level.

Nonetheless, I typed pretty much the same things to to her over MSN and to my surprise she replied quite intellectually and understandingly and I seriously hope this helped. If it didn't, then I'm on the verge of not knowing what do with this relationship.

Thanks for the writing tip though.

 

[Veteran In Love]

ok after reading this I'm just gonna bypass these issues and go to explain the fact that you sir, have been severely pussy whipped.

Never ever ever ever put a girl before your life, friends, and the things that are your passion in life: A great girl/woman should be a top compliment to what is already a great life. Also, women tend to be chased away by needy folks.

So my advice? Stand up for yourself, if you assert your masculinity at the right times, show her that you are firm in your beliefs, and stop being so damn needy, she'll end up respecting you more for it.

p.s: I may have seemed a bit harsh but i think this guy needs a wake-up call if he's gonna take this kind of shit from a girl, much less anyone.

 

[akuchi]

"from a girl, much less anyone"?
my christ. A partner shouldn't be a 'compliment' to your life, they should be an integral part OF your life.

and genuinely just stop with the stupid generalization bullshit. I've absolutely nothing against needy men.. nor does it sound like he's being needy.

and again with the 'asserting your masculinity'.. why not just smack the bitch and be done with it in that case?