Ok so our timezones are like 13 hours off and i "missed scheduled time" by mixing up them saying sunday and thinking it was my sunday not saturday (I was busy that time saturday)
I then responded as soon as i realized the mistake (with over a week to still battle including the weekend) and they never responded back to schedule another time, and instead just tried fishing for activity win...
Activity on my behalf, but hopefully they decided to actually respond to me and play, rather then rely on activity win from mistake with 9 days left rofl