Are you saying that on sites like veoh, dailymotion and similar sites have the same bad formatting with chrome. I no likey.
I use video-based sites all the time. Mostly to watch some anime or videos of battles, etc.
I went on one site that uses a similar Flash-based video as YouTube, and I was in Incognito mode. Still had troubles loading. I know this because on Firefox, I have a Flash Blocker which marks Flash objects with a little play button. (This is useful on YouTube because I can choose when to play the video - it doesn't play automatically.) The videos on both websites both require you to press the little play button before they load or being playing.
I still prefer Chrome, though, mainly because I usually navigate text-based sites.