I went on one site that uses a similar Flash-based video as YouTube, and I was in Incognito mode. Still had troubles loading. I know this because on Firefox, I have a Flash Blocker which marks Flash objects with a little play button. (This is useful on YouTube because I can choose when to play the video - it doesn't play automatically.) The videos on both websites both require you to press the little play button before they load or being playing.Are you saying that on sites like veoh, dailymotion and similar sites have the same bad formatting with chrome. I no likey.
I use video-based sites all the time. Mostly to watch some anime or videos of battles, etc.
I still prefer Chrome, though, mainly because I usually navigate text-based sites.