Hello,
I thought about this quite a bit and figured I could get some more oppinions (or maybe even 'help') from this and maybe start an interesting discussion for others.
What I was interested in is: do you know anyone, who looks so good that you would do nearly anything for that person or go out of your way to help her? I don't mean something distant as a star like Meagan Fox or idk, but rather maybe someone as close as a good friend.
With that general question done, here's my case: one of my better friends (bet you didn't see that coming ~~) looks so fantastically attractive that it's getting quite uncomfortable to hang out with him. I do know that I won't have a chance and I do know that acting the way I act is stupid and I plan on stopping it every time our clique meets, but sooner or later I start offering my help (like that one time I helped him painting a room for his boss) or trying to do him a favour without getting anything out of it.
I mean, I have no crush on him, that behaviour is purely based on how he looks.
Now, what to do? Is there some way to stop acting like I drooling retard (which I don't, but I think you get the hyperbole/metaphor) besides not hangning out with that person anymore (which isn't an option, since we are rather close friends and we're both a fixed part of the clique)? And what does that make me? Some shallow pervert, who needs to get laid?
Input appreciated.
I thought about this quite a bit and figured I could get some more oppinions (or maybe even 'help') from this and maybe start an interesting discussion for others.
What I was interested in is: do you know anyone, who looks so good that you would do nearly anything for that person or go out of your way to help her? I don't mean something distant as a star like Meagan Fox or idk, but rather maybe someone as close as a good friend.
With that general question done, here's my case: one of my better friends (bet you didn't see that coming ~~) looks so fantastically attractive that it's getting quite uncomfortable to hang out with him. I do know that I won't have a chance and I do know that acting the way I act is stupid and I plan on stopping it every time our clique meets, but sooner or later I start offering my help (like that one time I helped him painting a room for his boss) or trying to do him a favour without getting anything out of it.
I mean, I have no crush on him, that behaviour is purely based on how he looks.
Now, what to do? Is there some way to stop acting like I drooling retard (which I don't, but I think you get the hyperbole/metaphor) besides not hangning out with that person anymore (which isn't an option, since we are rather close friends and we're both a fixed part of the clique)? And what does that make me? Some shallow pervert, who needs to get laid?
Input appreciated.