You compare hot tubs, massages, and cleaning your room to sex, and tell people to do those instead.
Why??? Why do you have to respond? Ugh... Seriously, i'm not saying they are comparable to sex, but apparently sex has become some action just to "feel good". What i'm trying to say, there are other things that you can do to "feel good" that doesn't have to be sex.
The problem with this is not that you clearly haven't had sex yet (which is fine), the problem is that you feel the need to imply that these activities are viable replacements for sex without even being able to rationally compare the two.
again, i'm not comparing apples to oranges, i'm just saying do something else.
And if you were wondering, none of those even come close. Honestly you could have said "just masturbate" and at least that would have been acceptable (although still not close...)
About three times you've parroted yourself. State your argument, don't put it in 2 other forms.
After that you say that you don't "believe" in safe sex. It's not santa claus, it's a way of having sex that trivializes the possible negative consequences of sex, there is no room for belief. Safe sex between two people who are not married is functionally identical to safe sex between people who are.
Condoms don't guarantee safe sex, though it reduces risk.
Finally, I can't comment on the book you linked because I have no desire to research the (probably untrue) claims it's making, but note that every single sex psychologist and therapist will encourage sexual activity in a relationship due to the deep feelings of intimacy and understanding of each others' sexual compatibility it will encourage.
First off, you can't judge if you know nothing about the claims. next see the bold word.
I can't imagine how anyone could find a negative correlation between pre-marital sex and satisfaction with relationship unless they do a shitty study and fail to account for confounding variables and self-reporting bias...oh wait I guess I just answered my own question...
(inb4"psychologists are brainwashed by liberals")
http://www.choicesaz.org/sexual_health/reasons_to_wait/
Why don't you actually do the research and THEN answer your own question. Please avoid appeal of emotions. Good day.