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im making this thread because this has been something that has been on my mind a lot recently, and im sure that i cant be the only one who deals with this. by "this" i mean my parents knowing that i play pokemon, and giving me crap for it. lemme explain my situation a bit before i ask what i want to ask
im 18, im a senior in american high school, and i have already been accepted into my first choice of college (which is nationally ranked), and i will be attending it next year. ive never struggled academically but i would be lying if i said that i busted my ass in school. all ive ever had to do was cruise along and do my work, which leaves me with a lot of free time. the thing is, im not the most social person irl, so most of that time is spent at home doing whatever. i have friends, and i do stuff outside of school, but im not the kid that goes out every friday night to do stuff or whatever. anyways, like i said i have a lot of free time. most of that time is spent on here, whether it be smogon or ps (screw irc).
i picked up mons a little less than two years ago after a friend reintroduced it to me (i had played the games religiously as a kid), and ive been hooked ever since. i enjoy playing the game, and i enjoy spending time talking with people ive met here. the problem is, most of my free time is spent doing this, and my parents hate it. they think that im too old for this and should instead be focusing on going out with friends or school work, telling me that this isnt gonna get me anywhere in life and that i should be doing things that actually matter. ive tried to tell them that im not mr. social (which i have accepted since i was like in 6th grade, and i have also been spending most of my free time online since then as well), but they dont seem to really get it since they were the popular kids when they were in high school. its gotten to the point now where i will hole up in my room away from them because i dont want to have to deal with them harassing me about playing a childs game. ive already tried to tell them that i dont even play this 24/7, and that i dont even send 100% of my time on smogon (i idle on ps all the time but in between spurts of activity ill catch up on a show or play a game or something (not always mons btw)), but they dont seem to listen. i still do my homework and keep my grades up, so im not concerned about this affecting stuff like that, but it seems like every time i try to tell my parents that i do do my homework theyll bring up how i have ps open in another tab or something. its starting to get to the point where im really looking forward to leaving the house for college because ill be away from my parents and have the chance to stand on my own two feet for once w/o them breathing down my neck. at that time ill probably step away from smogon for a bit too since im planning on having the full college experience since im not a fan of hs and in general i see it as a waste of time (i literally do nothing in half my classes and the other half is just needless busywork that takes no brainpower to do). im really looking forward to college, but i still have 2 months of school + 2 months of summer left, the latter of which i will be working.
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i dont want this to come across as me hating my parents and playing the victim, because that not really the point, and its not the truth either. i said what i said above to give some background so as to help explain my situation a bit. what i want to ask is if there are any other people here who are in similar situations, and if so, how do you handle it? do you try to explain your reasoning for being on here to your parents? or do you go about it differently? im open to anything, and i dont mind people who dont deal with this responding, but for the love of god, keep your fucking memes out of this thread. thanks.
im 18, im a senior in american high school, and i have already been accepted into my first choice of college (which is nationally ranked), and i will be attending it next year. ive never struggled academically but i would be lying if i said that i busted my ass in school. all ive ever had to do was cruise along and do my work, which leaves me with a lot of free time. the thing is, im not the most social person irl, so most of that time is spent at home doing whatever. i have friends, and i do stuff outside of school, but im not the kid that goes out every friday night to do stuff or whatever. anyways, like i said i have a lot of free time. most of that time is spent on here, whether it be smogon or ps (screw irc).
i picked up mons a little less than two years ago after a friend reintroduced it to me (i had played the games religiously as a kid), and ive been hooked ever since. i enjoy playing the game, and i enjoy spending time talking with people ive met here. the problem is, most of my free time is spent doing this, and my parents hate it. they think that im too old for this and should instead be focusing on going out with friends or school work, telling me that this isnt gonna get me anywhere in life and that i should be doing things that actually matter. ive tried to tell them that im not mr. social (which i have accepted since i was like in 6th grade, and i have also been spending most of my free time online since then as well), but they dont seem to really get it since they were the popular kids when they were in high school. its gotten to the point now where i will hole up in my room away from them because i dont want to have to deal with them harassing me about playing a childs game. ive already tried to tell them that i dont even play this 24/7, and that i dont even send 100% of my time on smogon (i idle on ps all the time but in between spurts of activity ill catch up on a show or play a game or something (not always mons btw)), but they dont seem to listen. i still do my homework and keep my grades up, so im not concerned about this affecting stuff like that, but it seems like every time i try to tell my parents that i do do my homework theyll bring up how i have ps open in another tab or something. its starting to get to the point where im really looking forward to leaving the house for college because ill be away from my parents and have the chance to stand on my own two feet for once w/o them breathing down my neck. at that time ill probably step away from smogon for a bit too since im planning on having the full college experience since im not a fan of hs and in general i see it as a waste of time (i literally do nothing in half my classes and the other half is just needless busywork that takes no brainpower to do). im really looking forward to college, but i still have 2 months of school + 2 months of summer left, the latter of which i will be working.
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i dont want this to come across as me hating my parents and playing the victim, because that not really the point, and its not the truth either. i said what i said above to give some background so as to help explain my situation a bit. what i want to ask is if there are any other people here who are in similar situations, and if so, how do you handle it? do you try to explain your reasoning for being on here to your parents? or do you go about it differently? im open to anything, and i dont mind people who dont deal with this responding, but for the love of god, keep your fucking memes out of this thread. thanks.