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@ Everstone
This is probably a very similar thread to Theorymon's, but I still wanted to make it anyway.
I was on the bus today, going back from school, when I saw an old man in the street with what seems to be a slightly heavy-looking bag that the old man was a bit struggling to carry and walk with at the same time. And he was old, 70s-80s kind of old. In that same instance I also saw a middle-aged man that looked like a businessman trying to cross the street. I realized at that minute, I'm fucking terrified of growing old. I feel like I want to do so much with my life, from having great ambitions to going for as far as discovering a new cure to diseases or discover something big via research (i'll be explaining on these in a minute), to travelling the world on my own, with light luggage.
I just graduated high school 3 months ago, and I am now in Dublin doing a "foundation year" that all international students have to take in order to get into a university in Ireland. I'm originally from Kuwait which is in the middle east and as you probably know already, the middle east is a very close-minded environment with a very small minority that's open minded, and I consider myself part of the small minority, along with my two brothers who I have also discovered to be as open-minded as I am, going as far as to say that I'm suspecting one of them to actually be gay which, in traditional Islam laws (shariya), you would be killed/burned for.
I'm going to major in Genetics. Around a year or two ago, I started noticing that Biology is my favourite subject so I naturally wanted to major in something related to that, and I got the chance to study Genetics slightly in my last year of highschool and I really loved it so I'm majoring in it. Genetics is a fairly new field of science, only being about 20 years old. Genes have been touched on before of course (see: Mendelian Inheritance), but humans never actually got to understand them well (or discover new things about them) until recently. Naturally, majoring in something that's heavily linked to Biology would mean lots of research. As I previously stated, I am willing to do lots of research, and I plan on eventually getting a PhD, but I still don't know what I want to "specialize" in. I have no idea whether my research would lead me to new things however, although for now I consider it a dream of mine to actually do that, and I'll try my best to achieve it.
Of course, I got a lot of weird looks from both family members (including my parents) and my general classmates (even some of my best friends) when I actually told I'll be majoring in Genetics, while everyone else was either majoring in medicine or engineering seeing as how oil is a pretty fucking god business in Kuwait. My dad went as far as telling me that Genetics are bad and that I should do either business or engineering, seeing as my grades weren't high enough for me to get into Medicine. This is mostly because Kuwait's people are close-minded and they don't exactly know how good the Genetics major actually is, or the discoveries that they could lead to (me personally, I believe Genetics are literally the key to a better future, but that's a story for another time) which could immensely help the human race. The society is also close-minded in general thanks to multiple things such as religion, customs and traditions (which are basically limits set by the society, like no close contact between males and females etc), and limits set by the government itself. I, on the other hand, have abandoned my religion a while ago and don't consider myself part of it anymore, I consider myself an atheist, and I've since freed myself of these limits set by the society/government. However, I do think things are getting better, and I do believe that Kuwait will get a lot better as the generations go on, putting all of the political problems (which are fucking huge right now to the point where i'd consider it a "cold civil war" lol) aside.
What I fear is that I won't be present for these changes that I wish to occur. Despite me hating my country right now, I'm still loyal and I feel like I'm 'linked' to it, and naturally I'd want the best for it and I'm afraid that I won't be there when it changes for the better. I'm also afraid of growing old and dying before say, humans land on mars. This is probably a ridiculous thing to say but I want to live to see all scientific advances and breaking discoveries, and to see my society open up a little and accept that we shouldn't be living under the shade of a book that's literally ~1500 years old, and did nothing in the modern age except for starting wars and problems.
That isn't counting the things I personally want to achieve; as I said I want to be part of those breaking discoveries that I wish to not miss, I also want to travel the world, learn how to play a violin etc. Basically I want to make the most of my life before it's too late, and I feel like too late is going to happen too soon.
I don't think I'm afraid of death itself; I accept the fact that everyone has to die eventually, it's just the idea of growing old that's terrifying me.
I just needed a place to share this, thanks for reading.
I was on the bus today, going back from school, when I saw an old man in the street with what seems to be a slightly heavy-looking bag that the old man was a bit struggling to carry and walk with at the same time. And he was old, 70s-80s kind of old. In that same instance I also saw a middle-aged man that looked like a businessman trying to cross the street. I realized at that minute, I'm fucking terrified of growing old. I feel like I want to do so much with my life, from having great ambitions to going for as far as discovering a new cure to diseases or discover something big via research (i'll be explaining on these in a minute), to travelling the world on my own, with light luggage.
I just graduated high school 3 months ago, and I am now in Dublin doing a "foundation year" that all international students have to take in order to get into a university in Ireland. I'm originally from Kuwait which is in the middle east and as you probably know already, the middle east is a very close-minded environment with a very small minority that's open minded, and I consider myself part of the small minority, along with my two brothers who I have also discovered to be as open-minded as I am, going as far as to say that I'm suspecting one of them to actually be gay which, in traditional Islam laws (shariya), you would be killed/burned for.
I'm going to major in Genetics. Around a year or two ago, I started noticing that Biology is my favourite subject so I naturally wanted to major in something related to that, and I got the chance to study Genetics slightly in my last year of highschool and I really loved it so I'm majoring in it. Genetics is a fairly new field of science, only being about 20 years old. Genes have been touched on before of course (see: Mendelian Inheritance), but humans never actually got to understand them well (or discover new things about them) until recently. Naturally, majoring in something that's heavily linked to Biology would mean lots of research. As I previously stated, I am willing to do lots of research, and I plan on eventually getting a PhD, but I still don't know what I want to "specialize" in. I have no idea whether my research would lead me to new things however, although for now I consider it a dream of mine to actually do that, and I'll try my best to achieve it.
Of course, I got a lot of weird looks from both family members (including my parents) and my general classmates (even some of my best friends) when I actually told I'll be majoring in Genetics, while everyone else was either majoring in medicine or engineering seeing as how oil is a pretty fucking god business in Kuwait. My dad went as far as telling me that Genetics are bad and that I should do either business or engineering, seeing as my grades weren't high enough for me to get into Medicine. This is mostly because Kuwait's people are close-minded and they don't exactly know how good the Genetics major actually is, or the discoveries that they could lead to (me personally, I believe Genetics are literally the key to a better future, but that's a story for another time) which could immensely help the human race. The society is also close-minded in general thanks to multiple things such as religion, customs and traditions (which are basically limits set by the society, like no close contact between males and females etc), and limits set by the government itself. I, on the other hand, have abandoned my religion a while ago and don't consider myself part of it anymore, I consider myself an atheist, and I've since freed myself of these limits set by the society/government. However, I do think things are getting better, and I do believe that Kuwait will get a lot better as the generations go on, putting all of the political problems (which are fucking huge right now to the point where i'd consider it a "cold civil war" lol) aside.
What I fear is that I won't be present for these changes that I wish to occur. Despite me hating my country right now, I'm still loyal and I feel like I'm 'linked' to it, and naturally I'd want the best for it and I'm afraid that I won't be there when it changes for the better. I'm also afraid of growing old and dying before say, humans land on mars. This is probably a ridiculous thing to say but I want to live to see all scientific advances and breaking discoveries, and to see my society open up a little and accept that we shouldn't be living under the shade of a book that's literally ~1500 years old, and did nothing in the modern age except for starting wars and problems.
That isn't counting the things I personally want to achieve; as I said I want to be part of those breaking discoveries that I wish to not miss, I also want to travel the world, learn how to play a violin etc. Basically I want to make the most of my life before it's too late, and I feel like too late is going to happen too soon.
I don't think I'm afraid of death itself; I accept the fact that everyone has to die eventually, it's just the idea of growing old that's terrifying me.
I just needed a place to share this, thanks for reading.