OK so here's my activity post.
I got johned once by my opponent over the weekend (you can check, our of the blue he said we could fite if I messaged in the next 5 minutes, it took me 6 but really that's close enough. he never even got back on after making that post). I asked him to pick a reasonable time that would work for both of us, and the answer he gave me was 5 AM my time which I simply can't do. I'm not saying he's doing anything wrong, but if we can't fite I don't think I'm doing anything wrong.