I want to express my thoughts about some scumbag behavior that happened in the semis between me and LNumbers. My intention here is to express my feelings to the community, and then move on and drop it. Enjoy my first ever public crashout on this site.
I'll start by saying nobody should be trying to reverse the result or anything of the sort. It was a good set, good games, and I wish I could've enjoyed playing them without the stress of the irl clock. Obviously I wish they went the other way, but I'm not going up here to whine about the result. ggs wp.
But I will whine about the absolute blatant disrespect of my time and me. Here's the situation. LNumbers and I agreed to a bo5 at 10am-8/7pm+1. 22mins before scheduled time, he requests a 30min delay. At 10:30 -8 (gonna keep all times in -8 going forward here) we ping the team and he says he is getting on stours. 10 mins go by and he's not online, so I mention I have a hard stop at noon. He does not appear and chal me until 10:42, 42mins after scheduled time, 12mins after manager ping. G1&2 go long, it is now 11:54 and I asked if we can revert to a bo3 for time reasons, since he was 42mins late. He claims his team wont let him. He then takes 7 mins between G2&3 AND G3&4, AND 11mins between G4&5. Overall this topped at me waiting over an hour for this guy, and we don't finish the set until 1:22pm, almost 3.5hrs after the original scheduled time. 2hrs should've been plenty enough of a time window to finish this.
This is why we have to have discussions about the rules in threads like
this. This is why people have to claim activity wins, even when it sucks. This is why we make a big deal about it. For some context, we just had a discussion about time wasting and I outlined my opinions on the matter
here. In that post, in Rant1 I talk about how someone wasted my time up to 1 min before activity. Guess who this person was? LNumbers. Dude. Show up to your games at scheduled time. This is a pattern of not respecting the rules because you think you can get away with it.
You're either doing this on purpose to fuck with my mental, or you're just incredibly inconsiderate. Congratulations, you successfully got in my head and had me stressed out about irl clock, and it impacted my play. good work. Either way it's scummy behavior, and it impacted my fun and enjoyment of the game. So to anyone else who ever plays me (if I even sign up for another tour on this site), there's no more leeway. I'm sorry, but if you fuck up, LNumbers took all my patience and I have none left for you.
To the rest of the tortles, you should be furious about this behavior. Not only did he nearly cost you an act win in a semifinal, but it makes you all look like scumbags.
Alright that's enough dogpiling on one person; to be clear, I don't want anyone else publicly talking shit on him. That is my right as the person whose time was wasted, and I want to vent. No one else should say anything about the specific person, just the behavior. I want to transition to my main point here.
Yes, I should've pushed for bo3 harder. Yes I should've just called activity. That's my entire point. This is why I should call act at every possible opportunity. This is why I don't play this game more, because of the frequency with which ppl waste my time! I'm here to play the fucking game, and if you can't keep a schedule, I'm the one who has to make the sacrifice on my time? I have to take more time away from my family, work, friends, responsibilities because you suck at time management? Absolutely not - I should just call act.
The more people enforce the rule and call activity, the less we will need to.
At a certain point, we need to ask ourselves as a community what behavior do we want to cultivate, because everything cannot coexist. Do we want a culture of immaturity, unreliability, and consequence free behavior (including all that comes with that), or do we want to expect decency and reliability and consequences. I simply cannot fit this hobby into my life if people disrespect my time in this way. Sure I suck, I don't grind enough, skill issue; whatever, I don't care. I'm just here to play a GAME that I loved as a child with a portion of my limited free time in life. If I can't guarantee timeslots, I just don't get to play.
So that's it, would you rather have ppl who waste your time and don't show up, or would you rather have act calls and me? You can't have both.
LNumbers, I'm sorry to publicly flame you here; I need to make a point that this behavior isn't ok, and you happen to be the guy at other end.
I'm gonna go get a strong drink and forget this site exists for the rest of the night.