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Serious Relationships and Sex Ed Thread
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The vast majority really don't. The ones that do have their own issues they may want to look at.
Well this has been FUN, but back to problems.
So I mentioned earlier that my bi friend's gf (girl dating a girl) is not outgoing enough for her. To reiterate: she's a very timid person, and she needs someone to be outgoing for her. I really think it's a overall bad matchup, and that while it's fun and giggles now they won't have a very good future together when it comes to actually living together. I want to inform her of this, but well... she's kind of bad with criticism. I've told her stuff like this before, but it usually ends with awkward angry silence, "I'm going to hit you", or hanging up. I know she can't actually hurt me or anything (girl sits around I all day. I exercise.), but I really hate how she gets when I tell her I don't like her choices. Now I'm especially afraid since it's about her girlfriend that she absolutely adores, and is very much smitten with.
So I mentioned earlier that my bi friend's gf (girl dating a girl) is not outgoing enough for her. To reiterate: she's a very timid person, and she needs someone to be outgoing for her. I really think it's a overall bad matchup, and that while it's fun and giggles now they won't have a very good future together when it comes to actually living together. I want to inform her of this, but well... she's kind of bad with criticism. I've told her stuff like this before, but it usually ends with awkward angry silence, "I'm going to hit you", or hanging up. I know she can't actually hurt me or anything (girl sits around I all day. I exercise.), but I really hate how she gets when I tell her I don't like her choices. Now I'm especially afraid since it's about her girlfriend that she absolutely adores, and is very much smitten with.
Calm your tits Yeti I wasn't trolling. The gay voice is something I never understood. If I had to make a guess it would be that gay men do the feminine voice and some of the lesbians do the 'butch' voice in order to attract/make obvious to other homosexuals. I'm not sure I buy the 'gay voice dormant' idea. Maybe you have it and experienced an estrogen surge from reading my post, then decided to your use intellect to sound like a fucking idiot instead of offering a useful reply. I shouldn't make assumptions.
Unbunch your panties. Take a walk or something.
I'm for gay marriage. I'm not your enemy. I really don't care what anyone does in their private life. I have no ill will toward homosexuals. If you want to take it in the butt, that's cool. Not getting any dick from me though.
So fuck off.
Unbunch your panties. Take a walk or something.
I'm for gay marriage. I'm not your enemy. I really don't care what anyone does in their private life. I have no ill will toward homosexuals. If you want to take it in the butt, that's cool. Not getting any dick from me though.
So fuck off.
Your rage proves my point that you are a repressed homosexual only now discovering what you were born as and struggling against your new identity. You should probably stop fighting your inner desires and learn to live with who you really are so this self-loathing subsides.
Also lmao I am not male nor homosexual and I certainly am not interested in your two inch wonder. I also am opposed to gay marriage. You, however, showed a profound ignorance in your first post and your second post is ridiculously defensive of yourself as a tolerant, open-minded individual for whom homosexuality "isn't your thing!!!!" The fact you had such an overreaction to a post containing HEYAYAYAY is evidence of strong inner turmoil. I hope you can reach peace with yourself, wherever you wind up on the orientation scale.
Yes actually, http://www.gaydating.com/ will be quite helpful for you once you come to accept who you really are. Good luck.
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I think I just watched someone type two paragraphs, embed a video, and look up a gay dating site to go "ha, ur gay."
Yeti, I'm not going to tell you what to think about homsexuality. To be honest, I'm very "question mark" about it myself right now since I'm into this Jesus idea, but the old testament law seems to condemn homosexuality outright. (but that's a whole messy matter of socialization, context, and translations for another time.) What I do know is that you didn't spend your time here because of your sense of morality, but rather to belittle others. You're probably not even a mean person either, but you've seriously wasted your time and made yourself to look like an ass. I won't make any assumptions about your self esteem or respect for others, but going out of your way to make sure someone knows you think they are inferior reflects awfully on you.
Yeti, I'm not going to tell you what to think about homsexuality. To be honest, I'm very "question mark" about it myself right now since I'm into this Jesus idea, but the old testament law seems to condemn homosexuality outright. (but that's a whole messy matter of socialization, context, and translations for another time.) What I do know is that you didn't spend your time here because of your sense of morality, but rather to belittle others. You're probably not even a mean person either, but you've seriously wasted your time and made yourself to look like an ass. I won't make any assumptions about your self esteem or respect for others, but going out of your way to make sure someone knows you think they are inferior reflects awfully on you.
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Ah I see the problem here, after you made a post demanding we give you attention instead of continue to mock those with little to no comprehension of the queer world and what gay people are actually 'born with' I made two more posts ignoring this and informing a user they reek of self-conflict over their sexuality, as evidenced by many key tells. You took this as a direct attack on your manhood, an alpha female disregarding your request for attention and carrying on with the mockery of another ill-informed male. Now you are attempting to bring to the front how you hope others view my post, as a poor reflection on myself, as well as the fact I refused to be SERIOUS!!! when this is a SERIOUS THREAD GUYS!!!
It must be very upsetting indeed to be on the other side of all the chaps laughing at the poorly-constructed notions of 'friend zone' and 'nice guys' and 'how is gay babby formed' while your own query is ignored. Unfortunately you will bring yourself no favors attempting to shame me for my quality contributions to this thread.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexuality_in_the_New_Testament ; the Catholic denomination (I am uncertain where you reside denomination-wise) also has their own doctrine regarding why homosexuality is wrong - that being said, I disagree with numerous elements of their belief system.
It was really no effort at all to do anything of what I did. I wanted to listen to the song anyway. It instills and/or reaffirms an attraction to the male sex for all genders, after all. I also wanted to help my buddy Crux find a date to his 10th grade prom, thus I found him a likely website with which to obtain companionship, if only for a night.
Yeti, are you? stupid, or just trolling, cause, your using the bible ( a ficitional book) to make an arguement to say homosexuality is wrong when in reality the homsexuals have done nothing wrong to you
people like you are the REASON that scientists cant get funding, cause you still beleive in a fictional diety who has made the universe -_-; and jesus
people like you are the REASON that scientists cant get funding, cause you still beleive in a fictional diety who has made the universe -_-; and jesus
Listen, Baby, this is not the place for you to be pstoing your reatard animations, so why dont you go to the troll sub forum - oops i ment to say firebot - firebot and then you can make spam posts, cause we're having serious discusciotions here, ok? ok bye now :*
What the fuck did this thread turn into?
Friend-zone, nice guy bullshit is ... ugh, it reeks of immaturity and ignorance. Every single time I see those mentioned, I just cringe. Those notions just sound like something that someone who is still in high school and who is inexperienced with dealing with women would say.
I know, I've been in that mind set back when I was in high school. Here's the thing, you know that boyfriend she has? He's nice to her too (if he's not, then they both have some problems and sometimes baggage like that... you don't want) and they both usually have something that makes the relationship work. It could be a mutual attraction or similar hobbies or something that makes them click.
If you keep dating someone just for looks, that usually just makes you have a cunt of a girlfriend on your hands.
TL;DR: Whoever says friend-zone or nice guy should be punched in the dick.
Friend-zone, nice guy bullshit is ... ugh, it reeks of immaturity and ignorance. Every single time I see those mentioned, I just cringe. Those notions just sound like something that someone who is still in high school and who is inexperienced with dealing with women would say.
I know, I've been in that mind set back when I was in high school. Here's the thing, you know that boyfriend she has? He's nice to her too (if he's not, then they both have some problems and sometimes baggage like that... you don't want) and they both usually have something that makes the relationship work. It could be a mutual attraction or similar hobbies or something that makes them click.
If you keep dating someone just for looks, that usually just makes you have a cunt of a girlfriend on your hands.
TL;DR: Whoever says friend-zone or nice guy should be punched in the dick.
That stills doesnt explain why if your a gentleman all the girls go for the dumb jocks, even if you hold the doors open for them, and allow them to crying on your shoulder when theyre dumb jock douche tron boyfriend has dumped them or cheated and them, and they are saying ":why cant all the guys be like you hamdi!!" WELL LISTEN UP BICH. IF YOU WANT A TRUE BOYFRIEND. YOU JUST HAVE TO LOOK IN FRNT OF YOU. but they never see the truth, instead they go into the arems of another douchebag, and then your left wondring what you did wrong, when, in reality, you were just nicew, chivalrous, like a true man, chivalrous, like kiing arthur.
Because in your 15 year old awkwardness, you think that being nice to them will net you a girlfriend (it doesn't).
Also I hate to break it to you, dumb jock has looks. You're in highschool. Why are you around the girl? Is it because of her personality or her looks? It's a 2 way street.
Instead of being an emotional rag for a woman I'm not even dating, I'd rather hang out with my friends.
Also that post was unbearably painful to read. The whole nice guy thing will disappear once you're older and out of highschool.
Also I hate to break it to you, dumb jock has looks. You're in highschool. Why are you around the girl? Is it because of her personality or her looks? It's a 2 way street.
Instead of being an emotional rag for a woman I'm not even dating, I'd rather hang out with my friends.
Also that post was unbearably painful to read. The whole nice guy thing will disappear once you're older and out of highschool.
Hobo Jeo, i know your just angry cause you dont get likes on your posts. So why dont you take your anger some other place. Cause you dont know me, you just read that im 15 on my profile and your saying that im a 15 year old awkwardness. Well, i may be 15 but im mature for my age, and more intellegent then other people in the whole school. how can you say that a dumb jock has looks? you dont even know him, and btw, im pretty good looking also when i make the effort to look nice. so why dont you keep your dumb opinions, to yourself, probably you are a jock. but you wont get girls cause your shit persnality.
Obvious troll
thread's completely gone to shit, thanks guys
To attempt to divert discussion back to something remotely educational, and without meaning to sound offensive or derogatory in any manner, what sort of consequences do you feel mental "disorders" such as Aspergers Syndrome, Tourettes and the like have on forming and establishing relationships? I'm aware of the whole "be a decent person" and "everybody has their own individual opinions/preferences" discussion which has been going on for the past page and a half or so and how that has just as much grounding with these sorts of people, but inevitably a LOT of people won't be comfortable with the idea of some people lacking the social aptitude and perceived interest, sexual cues and everything in that sphere, as their social communication abilities are fairly impaired when compared to your average NT and their quirks may end up either not suiting the interests of said NT, be too much to handle or just be a complete turn-off entirely, pretty huge seeing as social communication is pretty much THE big leveller in relationships and allegedly people with these conditions have had fairly low success in finding lasting love. What do some of you feel on the issue, and if anybody has had any experiences with these kinds of people (particularly Aspergers), providing they're not too upsetting to discuss, was it ever something you'd consider doing again? (or if you're married, there we go!)
To attempt to divert discussion back to something remotely educational, and without meaning to sound offensive or derogatory in any manner, what sort of consequences do you feel mental "disorders" such as Aspergers Syndrome, Tourettes and the like have on forming and establishing relationships? I'm aware of the whole "be a decent person" and "everybody has their own individual opinions/preferences" discussion which has been going on for the past page and a half or so and how that has just as much grounding with these sorts of people, but inevitably a LOT of people won't be comfortable with the idea of some people lacking the social aptitude and perceived interest, sexual cues and everything in that sphere, as their social communication abilities are fairly impaired when compared to your average NT and their quirks may end up either not suiting the interests of said NT, be too much to handle or just be a complete turn-off entirely, pretty huge seeing as social communication is pretty much THE big leveller in relationships and allegedly people with these conditions have had fairly low success in finding lasting love. What do some of you feel on the issue, and if anybody has had any experiences with these kinds of people (particularly Aspergers), providing they're not too upsetting to discuss, was it ever something you'd consider doing again? (or if you're married, there we go!)